Okay we will talk about the famous “money attracts women” topic.
Every men knows that women love money or they want rich men. We all know that, we all heard about that.
Even psychologists have written countless articles about this.
But here in this article i’m gonna talk about something that you don’t know about women and rich men.
And i’m going to explain to you why women think about money differently than most of you imagine actually.
Women find money attractive. Yeah, everyone knows that. And men find money attractive as well. There are men, especially handsome ones who actually search for rich women to marry.
So everyone loves money and finds attractive.
But i know what you will say. Men only go for looks and women also find rich men sexually attractive.
Well maybe there might be some truth in this.
Because as we mentioned about this countless times women find superior men sexually attractive. Whether it’s good looks (most important), confidence or status women desire superior men.
Therefore, money can make a man powerful and give him a source of confidence and dominance, it can give status therefore that man can become more attractive to women not only as a long term partner but in a sexual way.
BUT there is a big criteria for this; if that man has enough amount of looks and sexual attractiveness already.
Yes, we are always coming to this over and over again. We’ve talked about this when i’ve explained about what is the most important factor when it comes to sexual attraction. (You can check from here and here.)
Yes, looks are the most important things when it comes to sexual attraction not money or status.
I’m sorry to say this but without having enough looks and masculine personality traits just having money or status doesn’t work that much and especially on the long run.
Study after study this has been proven. When it comes to sexual attraction which is all about transmitting quality genes, having an attractive looks matter more than anything.
Without having enough looks, no amount of status, money or power will make a man sexually attractive to women.
Because we know this when we look at the number of women who cheat on their rich husbands or partners with handsome, more charismatic men.
Therefore when it comes to pure lust and sexual urges, looks and masculine behaviors like assertiveness and dominance always come first. They matter the most. They are the most important factors fundamentally especially the looks. Status and money come second.
Therefore in order to make money and status work and have influence over women a man has to have enough amount of looks because otherwise he will become just a target to use for his resources. Because he will have zero sexual appeal.
First, they want to get resources and commitment from a man, they crave both emotional and financial stability and second, they want to have sex with good looking and masculine (sexually attractive) men to get high quality genes.
Most women prefer to get a man that has both aspects and lucky ones might actually achieve this but majority of women don’t unfortunately.
Therefore if a man doesn’t have enough amount of looks but he is just rich and has a decent lifestyle then what this will make him in women’s eyes?
Just a cash cow of course.
Women may not find him sexually attractive that much or sexual attraction might be shortlived but in this case the sexual attraction is not what women want already.
They are after money and stability. They are attracted to resources and security. They want to create decent lifestyle, security and opportunities for their children instinctively.
So what i’m trying to say is most of the time women use rich men for their resources to get security, safety and lifestyle from them for both themselves and for their children. They seek out benefits. They exchange sex with resources, gifts and lifestyle. There is little to none real, raw sexual attraction in these relationships. It’s just a conditional transaction.
But a lot of women even cheat on their rich husbands and partners behind their back with tall, good looking, attractive men. Because these men are the type of men that women truly sexually desire and adore. These are the men that women give unconditional, no strings attached sex.
Money is a double edged sword. It can give you power, confidence or status. These may increase a man’s sexual attractiveness in women’s eyes. But money also has resource side. Which can make you open for exploiting.
Women may want to use you for your money, status and lifestyle.
Money is a dangerous weapon to attract women if you are not using it correctly.
You can “buy” pretty women with money, you can shower them with gifts and diamonds to have sex with them, you can use your status and popularity to attract women but this strategy is not a good strategy on the long run.
Therefore don’t think that only money and status can make you attractive to women. It doesn’t. Don’t believe this lie. Women don’t admit or they are not honest about themselves because they don’t want to lose their power. They want men to stay ignorant about this.
Truth is, if you don’t look attractive enough then money and status are way more dangerous weapons to have. Because a lot of pretty women will want to use you just for that.
But if you have enough amount of good looks beside money and status then they will make you even more attractive. It will give you extra boost. It will make you look more charismatic and therefore more sexually attractive.
How do we know all about this? How can we be sure that just money isn’t enough?
Again look at reality. Look at society. “Sugar daddy” term isn’t just some word that people use for nothing. Because we know most of the time women hunt rich men for their money. Especially if those men lack the sexual attractiveness.
There are so many rich, famous male celebrities that women don’t find sexually attractive at all. If it is just all about money and status then women would find all male celebrities sexually attractive which is not the case. Actors or high status males that women find extremely attractive are the ones who are very good looking in many times also such as Henry Cavill or Chris Hemsworth.
Therefore just having money or being famous can’t save you. You need other traits as well, especially the looks. Otherwise you will become just a “husband material” or a guy that can be used easily.
It’s not a bad thing to be husband or long term relationship material type of guy but you should seek strong sexual attraction from women also. Because without that women will never adore you and show true love and affection. They will never be submissive towards you. Without strong sexual desire women will never respect you. They won’t see you as a real man.
Which these are what most men want actually. And you can’t buy them with just money or status.
You may see some unattractive looking or average looking rich or famous men with hot girls and they are having wild parties in social media. But those are paid models in order to show off on social media or simply they are just hookers. Or some pretty girls that just seek out popularity, attention and lifestyle for a short period of time and they are using those rich men’s money and status to gain benefit for themselves. Many of those girls don’t even give proper sex to those men in many times.
If that’s what you want then yes you can simply “buy women” with money. You may get a lot of sex with money but you can’t buy the real sexual attraction and desire.
But in order to build a pure sexual attraction you can’t do that. Because it won’t work. In order to build real desire with women you can’t just rely on money.
You don’t want to be just used for your money and status. As i said it’s a dangerous weapon to have. Especially if you are little bit more naive, agreeable type of person.
Women can say “we love rich men, i desire rich men so much etc.” but again if you lack other important things like looks then they say those type of things to just manipulate men most of the time.
In conclusion don’t rely on money or try to make a lot of money just to attract women.
First, improve your looks and personality. Money and status can make you attractive or they can improve your overall sexual value only if you have enough amount of sexual attractiveness already.