Some men believe that women aren’t that much sexual, they don’t get horny a lot and they even think that women don’t need sex.
This is very old-fashioned thinking of course. This type of thoughts mostly come from men who don’t have much success and experience with women.
But in today’s society you can even see women express their sexuality openly, they lust after handsome actors and singers, they have many casual sex like men and they talk about sex as much as men do.
But unlike men generally women chase sex more secretly and indirectly because of social judgement.
Sometimes even though women want and need sex really bad still they might not act directly. They can play passive.
Of course generally men have little bit higher sex drive than women and men think sex more than women and testosterone plays a role in this. But there is not that much high gap between sex drives actually.
Because women are sexual beings too. They have strong biological urge to reproduce and pass on their genes.
Generally when people talk about women’s sexual strategy they say that women ovulate only one egg every single month and men produce millions of sperm everyday or every other day so men are designed to have sex frequently but women don’t need that much.
This is a very basic type of thinking of course.
Humans are way more complex than that.
First of all, you have to know that the ovulation is hidden in women unlike many animal species. There are a lot of theories about why this is like this but most logical one is, it helps women to secure a male and make him commit. Because if males knew exactly when women ovulate, when they will be fertile then they would give attention and stick around mostly at that time.
In matter fact, even women can’t tell when they will ovulate, when they are fertile exactly.
Even today’s age, with the help of technology and science still it is very hard to predict the exact time of ovulation. It’s almost impossible to pinpoint exactly the moment of ovulation because it varies a lot.
And if you think about cavewoman, it’s even harder for them to understand when they will ovulate and be fertile exactly.
If women knew when they will ovulate precisely and if they were interested to have sex only during that time that wouldn’t make ovulation concealed much. Then most men would ignore those women and search for more willing and hornier ones to impregnate.
Therefore women had lots of sex throughout the whole month. They needed to have sex frequently to make sure they will get pregnant and make men interested. And their sex drives must have developed according to that. They had to crave sex frequently just like men.
Because if you think about it, having less sex especially when you don’t know exactly when you will ovulate is a huge risk to take if you want to reproduce.
If one woman has sex only couple times a month and tries to catch the right moment for ovulation and other woman has sex more frequently let’s say 2 or 3 times a week then second one will be more likely to get pregnant and pass on her genes on to the next generation.
Therefore evolution will reward the second woman not the first one.
Women who crave and need sex frequently will be more likely to get pregnant and pass on their genes.
If you are not sure when you will ovulate exactly then waiting for the perfect moment to find a mate and have sex in a very narrow period of time is highly risky thing to do and decreases the chance of women getting pregnant on great amounts.
Also sperms can live inside of a woman only up to 4 or 5 days therefore women are literally designed to have sex frequently to make sure they will have fresh and alive sperm in them to catch the right moment. They needed to have sex more frequently in order to get pregnant.
And their hormones and sex drives have evolved according to that.
Nature doesn’t like to leave things to chance and women have very limited egg supply therefore women’s sex drives can’t be tied to their decision completely, they also had to feel the need to have sex frequently to reproduce and pass on their genes just like men. Otherwise we couldn’t exist.
Based on polls and interviews most women want and feel the need to have sex at least 2 times a week if not more.
Also women feel strong lust when they interact or flirt with sexually attractive men who are tall, handsome and masculine. It’s like they don’t want to miss the chance of getting quality genes from them. They don’t want to make those attractive, genetically high value men wait too much because they instinctively know that those men have many other options. Women will not say to attractive men to come back later when they ovulate. Because no one is sure about that. Therefore women had to feel the need to have sex with sexually attractive men quickly when they interact with them.
Therefore women can do anything to be with those men, they adore them and try to please them. They act way more open and willing with them.
They can fly across the country just to be with them. That’s how much women feel sexual attraction and lust towards that kind of attractive men.
When we add all these factors together we can tell easily that women are very sexual beings who want and need sex frequently.
Women aren’t even monogamous. They can be with a lot of attractive men to fulfill their instincts.
Women need one guy for commitment, emotional intimacy and resources and other guy(s) for quality genes. Most women prefer to get both from the same guy but many women can’t do that actually so they end up playing the dual mating strategy.
The reason women act like they don’t like sex or don’t get horny much because average looking, long term relationship type of guys don’t make them feel really aroused. Women try to make those men wait and commit in order to get sex.
But women can give sex easily, willingly and unconditionally to sexually attractive men that they even barely know. Because these men make them feel highly aroused and sexually excited. Women feel the need to have sex with them in a short time.
Long story short, women are very sexual creatures and they are designed by nature exactly like that from the beginning.