Why all women are sluts but don’t want to be seen like one?

Yes, you read it right. All women are sluts just like all men are sex obsessed pigs.

Lol, okay maybe i’m exaggerating little bit to get your attention.

But women are way more sexual than most people think actually.

A lot of men believe that women aren’t sexual much and they don’t need a lot of sex or they don’t get horny. But this is a very false belief of course. Women are human too.

They have hormones and strong urge to reproduce and pass on their genes like any living being. They are not some sexless, asexual robots.

Just look at Fifty Shades of Grey or Magic Mike type of movies or any erotic content that women consume excessively. Look at social media and the comments that women write under handsome celebrities’ photos. Just look at the amount of dildos that women buy on Amazon. Or just observe women when they get drunk. They become highly sexual and kinky all of a sudden because they reveal their true intentions easily due to alcohol.

In conclusion, women love sex, they need, want and crave sex frequently. They have sex drives. They are sexual beings. They are very kinky and horny creatures just like men.

Shy, religious, prude, introvert or extrovert or crazy doesn’t matter who they are, majority of women are horny, highly sexual beings just like men. Trust me on this.

But the reason women hide their sexuality and don’t express it much unlike men, is because they don’t want to lower their status in the eyes of society and also they don’t want to give wrong signals to wrong men because they are much more picky and cautious due to their nature.

Society doesn’t like to see women acting like horny, sex craving sluts of course. They don’t like the idea of women expressing their sexuality aggressively. They don’t want women to express their true nature. (Of course there is an evolutionary instinct behind this.)

And therefore often times women hide their sexuality and don’t talk about openly because of this. They play their game more passively and secretly than men do. They act more subtle about it.

The reason our culture evolved like this, because unlike men women get pregnant and have to seek commitment to take care of their baby.

And if society sees a woman act like a desperate slut, talking about sex openly and having sex with a lot of men then that woman would have a very hard time to get commitment and resources from men of that society.

Women actually want to have a lot of passionate sex with attractive men who they get excited sexually but also they want commitment, emotional connection and security. They want to get into meaningful, loving relationships. But men typically want to commit “virtuous type of women” so they can make sure those women carry their children not someone else’s. Men instinctively want to commit their own children. But from women’s point of view, it doesn’t matter that much for them. They don’t care about that as long as they get the quality genes and commitment. For them, getting genes from attractive men is more important than caring about the paternity.

Therefore women hide their sexuality and play little bit more passively and indirectly than men do.

Women don’t want to lower their status, they don’t want to be seen cheap, easy, desperate or less valuable. They don’t want to be slut shamed.

Because beside getting sex, women need to get commitment and resources. They need a man to commit them and love them. They are dependent on society. And they can’t achieve that by making sure everyone sees how much slut and promiscuous they really are. So they have to create an illusion that they are more virtuous than actually they are.

Women hate and deadly afraid of judgement of other people, especially men. They are deadly afraid of lowering their worth and status in the eyes of society. That’s why women always act sneaky, shy and subtle even though they are highly sexual beings. They even hide their slutty, kinky sides from their long term partners to create an illusion that they are “virtuous” woman.

We mentioned before how women have dual mating strategy and how much sexual actually they are.

Women have the instinct to get the best quality genes that they can get therefore they can have short term sex with a lot of attractive men, they can desire a lot of men at the same time. They are open and willing to that.

Also women have the instinct to get commitment, love and resources to take care of their offspring. They also have strong emotional needs.

But as we mentioned before over and over again those two types of men aren’t the same men in many times.

If you give a woman free space that she can express her true nature without being judged and couple men to mate with she probably would want to have a lot of sex with the most attractive one (good looking and masculine) and want to have children from him and then she would try to make him commit. But if he is not willing to commit then she would try to get commitment from average looking but the most loving, caring and loyal ones who she gets along well with and make them take care of their children.

This is the nature of women.

And of course it’s against our cultural norm.

Therefore women have to play their game secretly. They learned to tell lies and manipulate to hide their true strategy. They can’t reveal their true desires easily.

Women can’t express their sexuality openly as much as men, they can’t show much about their promiscuous, highly sexual identity, they can’t show how much horny and kinky actually they are because that would hurt their chance of getting commitment and resources from men. That would hurt their status. Because they are afraid of judgement.

(When you look at women who get free from social judgement by going to a foreign place (like another city or country) they become much more sexual and willing for short term relationships. Because they express their true sexual desires and urges a lot more easily. This situation alone shows how much women are sexual in reality but they hide it to avoid social judgement.)

Women actually want to act sexual like men, they want to reveal their desires and urges, they want to talk about sex openly. They want to have casual sex freely without being judged. But oftentimes they can’t do it because of social judgement. Therefore they act shy and timid and they tell lies about it. But when they get drunk they become much more kinky and assertive, they reveal their true intentions because they get courageous, they feel much more free from pressure. That also shows women’s true sexual urges and how sexual they really are but they play it passively to be seen “good” by society.

For women getting into committed, loving relationship and getting security from men as much important as getting quality genes. Therefore they can’t risk this.

They have to hide everything and lie about the number of their sexual partners or how horny and sexual they really are.

But the truth is all women are “sluts” deep inside. They crave sex like men do. They just play their game secretly and indirectly in many times. They don’t want to be seen cheap, easy or desperate. They don’t want to be vulnerable.

But they are highly afraid of being judged and also they are afraid of attracting wrong type of men.

Women only show their true kinky identity to sexually attractive men. Because only those type of men make them feel really aroused and comfortable enough. Those men only spark women’s inner desires that they are not even aware of.

Women sexually desire only small percentages of men. Because they are highly selective due to hypergamy. (According to OkCupid’s study, women rate a whopping 80% of men as below average.)

But women repel sexually unattractive men or average looking, long term relationship type of men and act like they don’t like sex, they don’t do one night stands and they are not promiscuous or sexual that much.

It’s better for them if those men believe this. It’s just a propaganda that women broadcast. Women can feel emotional attraction towards them, they can even love them but these men don’t make them feel really aroused like good looking, masculine men do. Women even hide their true desires from their nice, loving husbands to keep them in the relationship.

The reason most men believe that women aren’t sexual much and they don’t get horny or don’t like and need sex, because most men have never seen women’s true horny, slutty sides from firsthand unfortunately. Because most men are average looking, nice guys who aren’t much sexually exciting to women. And therefore oftentimes women give those men sex in return of commitment or when they do or give something that women need. Women give sex conditionally to those men. Therefore most men believe that women aren’t sexual and horny that much and they don’t need sex or they think that you have to be really romantic and loving to make women aroused but the truth is, women just don’t feel strong sexual desire towards them. They don’t feel sexually comfortable with them. But in reality, women are highly sexual beings who have very kinky fantasies.

Never forget, sexual attraction or lust isn’t something that we do purposely. It happens naturally. It’s a strong biological urge. You can’t force it. Therefore if a woman desires a guy sexually she will make things easier for him. Generally she will act open and willing to have sex with him without any rules or conditions. If you believe that you have to try really hard, say correct things and act very romantic and loving and buy gifts or flowers in order to spark arousal on women then you are still delusional.

(The truth is no matter how much you love a woman and how much you do for her, how much you give attention to her or how romantic you are, women can’t fight with their hypergamous nature. They will always follow their urges. They will always be open to have short term relationships with sexually attractive men no matter what their current relationship status is.)

When sexually attractive men desire them and want to have short term relationship like hookup, a lot of times women act open and willing for it. They respond to them. They give them sex unconditionally and willingly. But when an average looking, nice guy does that women act way more differently. They make excuses like “i have a headache” or “i never do hookup” or “i’m not that type of girl” or “i don’t like sex much” etc. They act mean and close towards them. Because they want them to invest time and resources and show their true love in order to get sex.

Because instinctively women give average men sex in return of commitment, love and resources or other benefits. They give sex as a reward. But on the other hand women give it easily and willingly to sexually attractive men (who they even barely know) out of instinct to get quality genes from them.

Yes, women are highly sexual, horny beings but only for the right type of men.

They are evolved to hide and manipulate. They can have sex with a lot of attractive men and they can do kinky things with them and then talk about how they don’t like sex, never do hookups, don’t get horny and how they only care about love and relationships.

Women can say to average nice guys “i never do hookup” and then do it on the same day with an attractive, sexually exciting man.

Women can say “i need to feel emotional connection, i need to feel loved to have sex” but then give it so easily to an attractive guy that they barely know.

It’s not because they lie. Women always follow their feelings and urges. Sexually attractive men make women aroused, they make women really horny. Women feel the need to have sex with them in a short time. Because it’s in their DNA. As i said they are hardwired to get quality genes from attractive men whenever the opportunity arrives. They highly adore those men.

Therefore it’s very hard for them to resist their own nature.

Women spend all their youth by trying to get sexual attention from tall, handsome, attractive men.

And when a sexually attractive man desires a woman she can’t resist it. Women can’t help it.

Being desired and getting attention from an attractive man make women go crazy. It activates their inner slut.

Whether they have loving partners or husbands doesn’t matter much. Women can’t help it. They are always controlled by their urges and feelings.

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